Aries in Marriage
Ariens make good spouses – this is credited mainly to the passionate and enthusiastic side of their personality. They are interested domestic affairs just as much as in official ones, in an almost childlike way. You can witness this in the way they decorate their houses, buy presents for their family members and provide for them. As parents, they are neither so unattached as to pass on cleaning diapers over to the spouse, nor so over-anxious as to panic when their kid spoils his school exams. If their children do not perform in school up to their expectations, they will take things into their own hands and help them through. But Ariens are not known for their patience! They might end up saying or doing something they might regret later.
There is the general notion that Ariens are give and take in marriage. This is a horrible notion to have, but nonetheless, not totally incorrect. Here, there’s one thing all married couples need to understand. In married life, there obviously are taking periods of each partner of the marriage – periods when the other understands his/her spouse’s need gives. But when the giving period comes, the Arien is often found wanting. At this point, he/she should reassess the situation, and question himself/herself if he/she is giving all that he/she has got. Ariens have this vast reserve of fervent energy, but it’s really important for them to put it in the right place.
Again, an important problem with Ariens is their selfishness. They do things that hurt their partner, and they don’t realize it. This thoughtlessness is as natural as the selfishness, and the end outcome is that the partner expresses his/her anguish in an outburst and the Arien is totally taken by surprise. The Arien’s simple nature and way of looking at life hinders his/her ability to understand the complicated results of his/her actions. So if you are an Arien and married, you have a lot to give as well as a lot to look out for.
Aries Male as a Husband
The Aries guy is always at his best at the start of the relationship. He’s terribly keen to impress you and his passion will convince you that you’re the only one for him. And you are - for the time being. Mr Aries, like Mr Gemini and Sagittarius has a short attention span. To keep him hot on your trot to the altar, and for evermore, be mysterious and unavailable. This man loves practical, sensible, prudent and classy women. He is fun to be with, a confident and innovative partner, generous - actually, a bit of a spendthrift - but he needs enormous amounts of ego-massage to keep him happy and stable.
Aries Female as a Wife
As a wife, she may be quite a handful. She’ll be a competent enough cook, and she’ll keep the house spanking clean – at least the part that shows. She’ll sew on buttons and iron shirts, too but she won’t like it. Still, she’ll do it when it’s necessary. (An Aries woman can do almost anything when it’s necessary.) She’s exciting and certainly never boring. Mars women are always softer inside than any but those who have been really close to them ever know. Her conversation will be very intelligent and very frequent. Don’t hide behind the newspaper at breakfast. She’ll expect companionship from you, or you can just scramble your own eggs.