How to Attract an Aries Woman
The Aries woman is confident and loves the sexual tension of early romance. It’s fair to say newness thrills her, and she hits the ground running in love. First dates go long into the night, with her total engagement in the moment. She is energized when pushing at her own limits. Great dates are activities of trying something new - from paddleboating to sailing or tango.
Let Her Call the Shots
To attract an Aries woman, be sure to come across as strong and assertive, but not so much so as to challenge her authority (she likes to be boss) or pose a threat to her (usually fairly large) ego. The Aries woman isn’t interested in a meek and mild "yes" man, preferring a partner with a mind of his own who isn’t afraid to stand up to her. To win this girl’s heart, it’s important, however, to get the critical balance of power just right. When push comes to shove and it’s a question of which one of the two of you gets their own way and which one does not, you’ll need to be willing to give in gracefully and let her call the shots. Okay, so it’s asking a lot but because the Aries woman is a born leader, to have any chance of succeeding romantically with her you have to show willing to follow her lead.
Take the Direct Approach
Because the Aries woman favors the direct approach, you should make it crystal clear you have the hots for her, rather than just hoping she’ll get the hint. She’s brain dead when it comes to subtleties and will never get the message that you’re interested if you keep beating around the bush. Don’t, however, commit the fatal mistake of making yourself too easily available and denying her the fun of the chase. Ruled by Mars, the god of war, Aries is the sign of the warrior and girls born under this star sign like to feel they have fought for, and conquered, their man rather than have everything handed to them on a plate. The key to seducing an Aries woman is to flirt outrageously with her in the first instance and then, when you’ve captured her attention, sit back and wait for her to make the next move.
Shoot Straight from the Heart
Always be truthful, even if it feels a bit embarrassing or you’re worried about causing offence. The Aries woman doesn’t hold back when it comes to expressing her emotions and she’ll feel more comfortable with you if you do the same. As one of the most passionate girls around, when she’s in love she won’t hesitate to openly show her affection and will expect you to be just as honest and straight down the line. An Aries woman isn’t into playing mind games and hates any kind of romantic deviousness or pretence. Not only will she not "get" it, but you also risk permanently turning her off. If you’ve done something to upset her, rest assured she’ll let you know in no uncertain terms. Quick to lose her temper, it doesn’t, however, last for long. An Aries girl doesn’t hold grudges and will want you to be equally willing to forgive and forget.
Don’t Try To Tie Her Down
Don’t under any circumstances try to make her jealous in the belief she’s more likely to fall in love with you. Although this is a seduction tactic that works well on some star signs, it’s the kiss of death to a budding relationship with an Aries woman. Nothing is more likely to arouse this girl’s wrath than romantic two-timing or disloyalty. She has to be number one in your eyes, and anything less will quickly make her lose interest. Personally, however, an Aries woman will expect you to allow her lots of freedom. Because she isn’t the type who ever wants to be tied down, she shies away from controlling, manipulative men likely to pose a threat to her independence. In order to attract an Aries woman, you have to make it clear from the start you have no intentions of trying to tie her down or fence her in.
Keep Her Adrenaline Pumping
Generate an atmosphere of excitement and anticipation and, most importantly, be sure to keep it going. The Aries woman loves the thrill of a new relationship, but as soon as it begins to get a bit routine and monotonous, the appeal rapidly wears off for her. With lots of energy and enthusiasm for starting things, she’s not so good at staying the course and easily tends to get bored. With this in mind, the key to unlocking an Aries girl’s libido - and keeping the flame of her passion alive - is to continually present her with fresh challenges that get her adrenaline pumping. Being spontaneous - acting on the spur of the moment, making last minute plans, forever surprising her with the unexpected, especially where sex is concerned - is the secret of making an Aries woman fall in love with you over and over again.